12 A guide to understanding dementia Caring for someone at home with dementia There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to care for someone with dementia – every person has their own unique needs. However, certain behaviours that are commonly displayed by those living with dementia can be handled using tried and tested techniques. The main thing to remember in all circumstances is that direct confrontation is best avoided, as this can distress the patient and lead to more extreme behaviour. “83% of people with dementia said being able to live in their own home was very important” Alzheimer’s Society